Contrary to popular belief, it is actually quite easy to approach a woman and start a conversation with her. The hard part lies in maintaining a good conversation and keeping her interested in what you are talking about. After all, if you no longer have anything to say, your conversation could end abruptly and you could miss your chance to make her like you altogether.
So, what should you do, then? Well, it is actually quite easy to find conversation topics that will make a woman like you. You just have to ask her questions about herself and try to relate her answers to your own personal experiences. Here’s how it works:
You should know by now that women love listening to funny and interesting stories. So, all you have to do is take full advantage of that fact and relate your past experiences to her past experiences.
The best way to do this would be to come up with good stories. A shortcut would be to use the famed October Man Sequence (but it could sound complicated to the beginner), but an easier way would be what I am going to share with you next…
Storytelling: Cornerstone of Successful Seduction
Regardless of how you have been leading your life, you should have several interesting stories about it up your sleeve. You just need to take a few of those interesting stories and give them a humorous edge.
Generally speaking, a good story should have the same presentation and format as a good joke. Here are some factors to keep in mind:
- The main character of the story has to be you.
- In the story that you are telling, you will need to demonstrate positive traits, such as courage, chivalry and confidence.
- Tell the story in a funny way.
- Your story has to have an interesting conclusion or a good punch line.
Naturally, the key here would be to craft your stories well and to craft them before you even meet a woman that you want to attract to begin with. You will also need to practice telling these stories beforehand, so that you can build more humor and drama every time you share them. This article in the Telegraph outlines how to make humor work in seduction.
Of course, some may scoff at the idea of storytelling and would prefer to use “underhanded” tactics which are more manipulative in nature, but I’m not here to judge you. After all, the results speak for themselves. 🙂
Another thing you can do is fish for various conversation topics while talking to women. Just ask them questions about their hobbies, interests and background, and look for things that you can relate to. After that, you can tell one of your stories and relate them to her own experiences. Another example of this technique could be found here.
These kinds of conversations will work well since she will feel like you can relate to her. Plus, if you end up telling your story really well, you can show her how funny and interesting you are at the same time.
By relating yourself to one of her interests, you can also increase the overall chances of you building rapport with her. Women tend to get attracted to men that are similar to them by nature. So, if you show her that you have several things in common through your stories, she will automatically like you because of it.
So, in a nutshell, all you really need to do to succeed in hooking women in through your conversations is to come up with several interesting stories from your life and relate them to hers. Try it!
PS: If you would fancy a more advanced technique on how to talk to women and make them like you quickly, try the fractionation tactic (which I shared here previously).